I'm ignorant of most things Islamic. But isn't there a promise that a good Muslim that kills a Jew will be rewarded with dozens of Virgins in the after-life? Isn't it an aim to live life like the prophet/ God Mohamed (bless his name), but didn't he take a 12yr old bride?It's illegal in much of the Islamic world, too, but they have different outcomes.
So I can understand the confusion, and urges that a newly arrived Muslim has to deal with when faced with such opportunity and delights that our modern western civilisation presents. Having been indoctrinated in a medieval ideology that does still support heinous activity would be bloody confusing within a western framework for some.